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The Pause Between Feeling and Acting: Where Recovery Choices Begin
When emotions, cravings or triggers feel overwhelming, the urge to react can seem immediate. Explore practical DBT-informed skills that can help you pause, regulate, check the facts and choose a response that supports your recovery, wellbeing and the life you are building.
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Oct 19 min read


Understanding Your Window of Tolerance in Recovery
Understanding your window of tolerance in recovery can help you recognise when you are becoming activated, overwhelmed or disconnected. Learn to identify your green, amber and red zones and find practical, compassionate ways to return to greater steadiness, connection and choice.
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Sep 2815 min read


What to Do After a Lapse: Responding With Responsibility Instead of Shame
A lapse does not have to become a full relapse. Learn how to respond with honesty, responsibility and self-compassion, recognise what happened, reconnect with support and strengthen your recovery plan without getting trapped in shame.
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Sep 39 min read


Recovery Capital: What Do You Have to Lean On When Life Gets Difficult?
There are times in recovery when life feels relatively manageable. We are sleeping reasonably well, our routines are working, relationships feel settled and we have enough emotional capacity to deal with the ordinary challenges that come our way. During these periods, recovery can begin to feel more natural. We know what helps us, we are practising it consistently and we may feel increasingly confident in our ability to navigate life without returning to the substances or beh
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Aug 2613 min read


Your Recovery Plan Is a Living Document, Not a Contract
I am a big believer in having a recovery plan. There is something incredibly useful about knowing what supports us, what our warning signs are, who we can reach out to and what we need to pay attention to when life starts becoming a little less manageable. I also believe there is enormous value in taking what is floating around in our heads and actually putting it down on paper, because a written plan can give us clarity, structure and something practical to return to when we
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Aug 209 min read


Some things I know now that I didn't know 15 years ago!
Waking up on new year's day with a clear head, heart, and conscience is one of the great joys of my recovery. I may lie in bed on 31st...
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Jan 1, 20237 min read


WTF!? What the Fifty!?
I can't believe that I have turned 50! I mean where did all that time go!? I remember my 18th birthday vividly...
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Dec 17, 20227 min read


14 Years...14ish Lessons
The lessons I have learned in my 14 years of recovery from an alcohol use disorder.
Leigh-Anne Brierley
Dec 31, 202112 min read
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